Earlier today I was in a conversation with a friend that is struggling with her self-esteem. In the exchange between a few other friends, I shared a few of my recent experiences of what I called Through-the-Roof Self Confidence. My friend asked for 10 steps to Through-the-Roof Self Confidence, and this is what I had to offer.
I share it here now because we all have times that we need a boost, and I'd love to think we all have - or are working towards - possessing Through-the-Roof Self Confidence.
I'm a work in progress, but I'm working on my journey in all areas of life and have definitely come a long way in building up my belief in myself. I hope these thoughts help you on your journey.
1. Love yourself - you take that
however you'd like
2. Spend time with yourself - not wishing you
were with others - YOU time
3. Invest in yourself...wardrobe, makeup,
hair, a mani/pedi, TIME, take a class
4. Take care of yourself - eat well,
exercise, drink LOTS of water
5. Set goals for yourself - whether it's a
career goal, exercise/health goal, educational goal - confession: I'm always
working on all 3
6. Take risks - try new things, step outside
of your comfort zone - accept change - it's good for you!
7. Ask for help when you need it - and ask
for advice from people who inspire you in all areas of your life...it's amazing
the things you'll learn about people - everyone has had a journey!
8. Accept compliments without
"but..." - Just do it! I t's empowering in ways you can't imagine.
9. Do one thing each day that moves you closer
to your goals...it adds up.
10. Accept yourself for who you are/where you
are and know that life is a work in progress - just be sure you're moving
forward.
Go get 'em, tigers!
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ReplyDeleteThanks for these. Simple and all true!
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